One conclusion drawn from drinks with K and M tonight: "I'm still not interested in dating. I just want to meet a guy I like, someone I want to spend time with, and who likes me and wants to spend time with me. And then we can be together and either get married or not." It's the first part, that bit about meeting someone, liking them, and them liking me back just as much if not more, that's the sticking point.
"Observe Everything. Always think for yourself. Never let other people make important decisions for you." — from Bad News by Edward St. Aubyn